God has spoken!! He has chosen Mitchell Gogulski to join him in Heaven. I met Mitchell in 1963 when I was dating his sister Shirley. (My wife of 45 years.) He was a young man growing up to be a man. Through our relationship we had to mourn the lost of his brother, mother and father. He endured the lost and moved forward with his life to blossom and grow. I was only given the opportunity to know him as a young man, but soon after his father's death relationships failed and the family grew apart. I don't know why and will never know. All left behind lost so much - never to be recovered or understood. His sister and two brothers have lost even more. Were they though of, missed, forgotten, or maybe loved over the years. I don't know. When the old die we lose part of the past. When the young die we lose the future. He will be remembered by me as a fine man, a brother-in-law,husband and father. Relationships change over the years and need to be understood, not criticized and not second guessed. May Mitchell rest in peace and be remembered.